Based on what you are saying then there should be no activities. If an activity is scheduled, publicized or not, then someone who is not invited might stop by - say a bishop or branch president. Love, common sense, parental involvement, and proper communication should be exercised in all things.kisaac wrote:It's not a "member" -"non-member" issue, as the news reports will verify...
Someone else mentioned non-member spouse. Unless the parents are separated and/or divorced this is less an issue, as the non-member could use the same computer and browser as the member, and won't have to register.
In all cases, the best practice is to communicate the needed information to the proper people involved, in as few words as possible, in the best manner. Anyone can write a five hundred word essay, and might find it easier to write a five thousand word business proposal, yet who can write a three word slogan? The 500 word essay you have to think a fair amount, while the proposal you are flushing, and fluffing, things out, to give it volume. Think of two of the most remembered slogans, Nike's "Just do it" and Mountain Dew's "Do the Dew". The ads where targeted to a select audience, and made it easy to remember. The slogan "Coke ads life" is easier to remember than "Have a Coke and a smile". The lesson here is to keep things short, to the point, and get it to the attended recipient.
Not every tool is going to be right for every job in every case. Just because it is not the correct tool for one job does not mean it is not the correct tool for another job, and should be tossed out. Know the tools available, know how to use them, or know a person that can use them for you, and know when to use them, or not to. An example would be a hammer and a jack hammer. A hammer can do a lot around the house, yet you would not use it to tear up a drive way or road, and you might not know how to use the jack hammer to do so. Just because you don't know how to use a jack hammer, and you don't need it to hang a picture, doesn't mean it is not a valid tool that can't be considered for another project, such as road and utility repairs. An understanding of the problem and the tools available helps a lot.
Parental involvement, common sense, love, and communication are the best ways to help make thing safe for all. Love for your fellow human being helps a lot as well. Christ said love thy neighbor as yourself, and as I have loved you, and you shall be known by your love for one and another. Love, unity, common sense, parental involvement, and communication - those should be the guiding forces here. Don't rule out the ward or stake calendar out of ignorance or because you are paranoid.