rpyne wrote:You really want to handle this carefully. There is te real possibility that her son has been excommunicated or has requested his name be removed from the Church records. In either of these cases, his confirmaiton date would be removed from her record.
I'd have to agree with this. Since the son is no longer living with her, he's most likely an adult. If he wanted his mother to know, he would have told her.
Proceed cautiously.